While many try talk therapy, exercise, and meditation, an alternative technique for stress relief has emerged in recent years. It’s called EFT, which stands for emotional freedom technique, also known as “tapping.” Here’s the lowdown on what it is and the health benefits. According to experts, focusing on a challenge while simultaneously tapping on these acupressure points sends a calming signal to the brain, allowing you to acknowledge the stress, while calming the body. Ortner adds that we don’t only experience stress in the mind, but physically as well, often in the form of tension headaches, a racing heartbeat, stomach issues, or back pain. Think of it as having similar, but noninvasive, effects as acupuncture. If you’re doing it right (read: gently), the tapping itself should not hurt. “It’s basically like acupuncture without the needles, where you use therapeutic touch on yourself to accept the stress or trauma you’re dealing with, while calming your body and mind,” says Sarah Bridges, PhD, a Minnesota-based psychologist. She adds that the ritualized process of tapping is also meditative, which can actually be useful to those who feel they can’t meditate. With that in mind, Ortner guided me through a tapping session. Here’s how it went. First, I sat comfortably in a chair, and then we identified my biggest stress (taking care of everyone’s needs) and how I felt it in my body (tension in my neck and shoulders). Literally and figuratively, I was feeling as though I had the weight of the world on my shoulders. She asked me to identify the intensity of the physical discomfort on a scale of one to 10. I gave it an 8. Then we began. Ortner showed me the nine meridian points, starting with the side of the hand, then the eyebrows, temple, under the eye, under the nose, the crease under the bottom lip, the collarbone, the armpit, and ending with the top of the head. Once I knew the correct areas to tap, she had me repeat phrases after her, while tapping these points in sequence, and acknowledge that I felt overwhelmed with juggling the needs of my family. We did this cycle for several minutes, and when we were done, she asked again how I would scale my physical tension. After a short tapping session, I now gave it a 3. Essentially, my neck and shoulder aches had been alleviated by half, going from acute to no big deal. A major plus: You don’t have to see a practitioner to reap the benefits of tapping. Unlike acupuncture or massage, this is a stress relief technique you are encouraged to perform on your own, ideally with the help of an app. If you’re curious and want to give it a try, The Tapping Solution app has a ton of different channels, addressing concerns around anxiety, phobias, body acceptance, sleep, and fear. I will admit, I had been a bit skeptical, especially as someone who can’t seem to shake my overactive thoughts, but I found my tapping session incredibly therapeutic and hope to keep it up.
